To whoever reads this, you are still alive. This is for anyone who does not know what to do in their life, nor have the guts to ask for things. Read this.
for those who have been through troubling times, life or existence. Life is not fair, no matter where you go, life will somehow fuck up and take advantage of any situation. Any time where you feel the most vulnerable there is always a choice to be made.
Always ask for help.
I never had anyone to look up to in my life when I was growing up nor now when I am an adult. I always had to struggle by myself. I was taught at a young age to never ask for help, always be independent, and never show how weak you are. I was told to push my feelings aside and that my emotions are just a faze. You know that feeling when someone asks "if you are okay" and you say "I'm fine", Never say that.
there are times to be strong, but this post is for the weak.
Never give up, I know you probably doubt my words, but this is from experience. Always ask for help, if someone wronged you, hurt, abused, controls, and blames something on you. ASK for help.
It's never a good idea to go out swinging a nailed bat by yourself. I have done it and I don't know how to react to things, I never learned how to be mature or know how to grow up. And to this day I struggle with it because I never asked for help.
My family, parents, and sibling never asked if I needed help, they all ways ignored me. pushed my dark thoughts in a box to get professional help, all I wanted was to grow up with them and to learn life; I was alone for most of my life, never had any friends nor had the chance to go out and socialize. You always need someone to help you when you are at your wost. I know it sounds like being dependant on someone else is the keynote of how you get through life. ITs not.
Help is there when you need it, Help will be there at all times, and help is when that person whom you ask for cares about you. You always need help.
When you do get out, don't be afraid to help others. Always, always never depend on yourself when you feel weak, when your times are dark ones, or when you can't escape.
never depend on those dark thoughts, It's never good to hurt yourself nor to hurt anyone else.
but always.
Ask for help.
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