No. I was not good in this scenario at all, initially. But you know the saying; we grow with time. My first relationship lasted for 4 years. I was in class 9 when it all started. So you can imagine that age and the level of maturity I carried in myself. Frankly speaking, it was no more than 20% of what I have now. But yet it lasted for 4 years.
The tenure of my second relationship was 2 years and 6 months. And I was in my 1st year of college life. Things did not work out eventually in the end. I do feel down sometimes, but what can do one do. We move on…
But, I learned many new things about human nature. Not just that, I learned the way of life. This blog is all about how you can approach in maintaining a healthy relationship so that things do not fall out of place.
Hi guys! This is Rijoy here. In this particular blog, I will share with you the most important and valuable tips for a healthy relationship which I have learned from my real-life experiences and some that I have collected from reading blogs and articles.
I aim to provide you with as much knowledge and tips and steps, that if you follow, you will have a healthy relationship filled with fulfillment and lasting happiness.
So let us dig in…
Below are the tips for a healthy relationship that I would personally like to share with each one of you. It is based on my real-life experiences and some from the best blogs and articles that I came across during this time.
Heartbreaks are quite painful. Trust me I know the pain. Therefore I would love to see your relationship flourish and avoid disconnection of any sort.
Here we go…
1. HONESTY IS THE BEST POLICY.
How to gain trust? Be honest, always. It helps to build trust. When you are honest with one another, you learn to trust one another respectively. It erodes away the suspicion and the thoughts of things being kept secret or hidden from you thus paving the way to a healthy relationship.
And naturally, you feel at ease in your mind and gut because you know that your partner cares enough to tell you the truth. It may not always feel good at times. The thing is you can actually appreciate the fact that your partner is being vulnerable here by being honest.
Your partner is taking a chance here by speaking what is true. When your partner speaks the truth, it is because your partner cares about you and wants a relationship with honesty and truth in its foundation.
It certainly does help you to grow your relationship without any psychological hindrance. It helps you to solve problems as well. Misunderstandings can happen at times.
By being honest, you can work through the misunderstandings and communicate to solve the issue and get going.
When you are being honest, it helps your partner to understand your past, present, and future. Your partner can begin to understand the situation, which you are, and what needs to happen to grow each part in your life.
I believe honesty expresses genuine and caring love. If I love someone I see my future with them. If you love best and you are super honest, and you want to protect them from this evil world, I highly recommend you to be honest because seeing your partner damaged or hurt isn’t something thing you want. Isn’t it?
2. BEING YOU.
I was always an introvert. I used to get nervous when it came to social gatherings in public places. I hate crowds. I still do. That’s how I am. If you accept me the way I am we are good to go. Or else different paths will suit us better. Yeah, this is me.
But you, you can be exactly the opposite. It does not matter if you are an introvert or you like to meet new people or parties around.
My point is you have to be yourself completely in order for your partner to understand what type of human being you actually are. The more you let your partner understand, the deeper the bond goes and vice-versa which results in a healthy relationship.
Being in a relationship does not mean that you cannot go out with your friends or have personal space or indulge in your hobbies. No. It is definitely nothing like that. But there should be a limit and a boundary to everything. Anything too much good is definitely not good at all.
If you want your relationship to flourish you have to be interdependent which means both you and your partner have to have a balance between each other. You have to believe in your individual worth and independent ability and also give lovingly towards the relationship and working as a couple.
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